How to Handle Criticism and Praise, Part 2

“The crucible is for silver and the furnace for gold, and each is tested by the praise accorded him.” Proverbs 27:21

“Bill, I want you know what a great job you did on the Finley report. Your work was outstanding.” Bill blushes, not quite sure what to say, trying to maintain that delicate balance of gratitude and humility. Praise, even more than adversity, can be a dilemma for the Christian. On one hand, it can lead rather quickly to pride and an inflated ego. On the other hand, praise can foster false humility.

A well-adjusted spiritual equilibrium can be found if we understand the following principles:

Praise is not a measure of our self-worth. Our worth and value come from our identity as God’s children, not our performance. Don’t evaluate yourself based on the compliments of others but on what God’s Word says about you.

Praise is a form of encouragement. Everyone needs a pat on the back. Praise is a means by which we can be encouraged. It is an oasis which refreshes and strengthens us for the journey.

Praise can affirm our God-given gifts. The writer who receives note-worthy remarks from a reader or the carpenter whose work is admired is stimulated for good works in the field God has placed them.

When you are praised, be honest and grateful and then remember to pass it along to others.

“Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; a stranger, and not your own lips.” Proverbs 27:2