“But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” 1 Timothy 5:8
A father is responsible to provide for the material needs of his family as best as he can in dependence upon God. That does not always mean Dad can afford everything his children or spouse desire; but he meets their basic requirements of food, clothing, and shelter. Yet in times of unemployment, meeting even fundamental needs is difficult. He must lean (as he always should) on the provision of the heavenly Father, helping his family see their real Source, Jesus Christ.
Children and spouse need a godly perspective of their self-esteem. Youngsters lacking a biblical sense of value to God are easy prey to peer pressure. Spouses who do not understand their worth to the Father and value as a mother and wife can easily slip into depression and false guilt.
Fathers, pray with your children. Tell them daily how much you love them. Let them know how grateful you are that God gave them to you. Husbands, love your wives with sacrificial, unconditional love. Praise her regularly both in private and in public. Help her to see her oneness with Christ and inestimable value to God and you.
Don’t preach the Word. Live the Word as Christ did, becoming a servant to all.
“Pay close attention to yourself and to your teaching...” 1 Timothy 4:16