“But I hope in the Lord Jesus to send Timothy to you shortly, so that I also may be encouraged when I learn of your condition. For I have no one else of kindred spirit who will genuinely be concerned for your welfare. For they all seek after their own interests, not those of Christ Jesus. But you know of his proven worth, that he served with me in the furtherance of the gospel like a child serving his father. Therefore I hope to send him immediately, as soon as I see how things go with me.” Philippians 2:19-23
In the celebrated Canadian novel Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery, the book’s main character, Anne, longs for and finds “a kindred spirit” - on with whom she may share her deepest delights and fears. A kindred spirit is one of the most significant means used by the Holy Spirit to aid the believer. It is no coincidence that Paul teamed with Barnabas and then Timothy - that David turned to Jonathan in his most desperate hours (1 Sam. 20).
The book of Proverbs lists several features of a kindred spirit:
“A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity” (Prov. 17:17). A kindred spirit loves unconditionally - especially in seasons of affliction when discouragement so easily besets us.
“...there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Prov. 18:24). A kindred spirit is steadfastly loyal. Gossip or misunderstanding do not dilute their allegiance.
“Faithful are the wounds of a friend...” (Prov. 27:6). A kindred spirit cares enough to confront his friend with the truth. His or her correction is completely motivated by genuine love.
Do you have such a kindred spirit? If not, pray that God will help you find one. Their value is priceless.