"In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior. Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses; but let it be the
hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle
and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God. For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear." 1 Peter 3:1-6
One of the most significant ways a mother influences her children is the manner in which she relates to her husband. Since the majority of our sons and daughters will grow up to be husbands and wives, their view of marriage is learned primarily in their own household. Thus, a son will discern much about his future wife's role and a daughter her place as a wife from their mothers' example.
Above all, a woman is to be submissive to God. Her personal relationship to Jesus Christ permeates everything she does. As she submits to Christ, her children understand the importance of a godly mother. In addition, a woman should submit willingly to her mate. By coming under the servant-headship of her husband, a woman provides a biblical role model for her children.
A woman should support her husband emotionally and spiritually. She undergirds him in prayer - even when his judgement is questionable. Also a woman must respect her mate. She must express a sense of dignity and honor for her husband - bother verbally and non-verbally. Children are profoundly impacted for godly living when a woman creates and atmosphere of respect, encouragement, and service in their homes.
"...and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband." Eph. 5:33
