Speak with Grace

“Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned, as it were, with salt, so that you may know how you should respond to each person.” Col 4:5-6

Communication is one of the most important elements in our society. Our words can quickly build a bond or cause separation. However communication doesn’t end with mere words. It involves all we are. Our body language, voice inflection, even changes in skin coloring communicate something.

Try telling your mate, “I love you,” but growl when you say it. Chances are your growl will be heard long before your words take effect. Poor eye contact often communicates lack of interest. Other nonverbal actions - touching, smiling, and tears - communicate deeper feelings.

Paul told the Colossians to make sure their language was filled with grace and seasoned with salt. He may have been thinking of Jesus and the way He communicated. Christ’s words were filled with acceptance and love while speaking God’s truth in such a way that all who heard it wanted to hear more.

What do you communicate to others? Is your message one of grace and love, or is it tight and condemning? Don’t lose sight of God’s goal humanity. He wants to use you as an instrument of His mercy and grace to others. Ask Him to give you the ability to communicate His salvation message to those who are lost and without hope.