“Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:31-32
The young man told of the anger and bitterness that was consuming his life. Finally, in frustration he said, “I feel trapped just like a bird tied to a short tether. I want to be free, but it doesn’t seem possible.” Many believers feel just as trapped as this man. For years they have been bound by old habits, feelings, or physical addictions that God never meant for them to bear.
One of the first steps to freedom from bondage is acceptance. You must accept God’s personal love for you. No matter what your circumstances may be - Jesus loves you.
The second step is to ask God to forgive and cleanse you from any sin in your life. Forgiveness of others is also a key factor. Until we forgive those who have hurt us, we will never experience true freedom.
A third step is being honest with God about your feelings and weaknesses. If you have suffered disappointment, tell Him about it. He cares and wants you to know that you can bring anything to Him in prayer.
A final step toward freedom is to ask God to help you gain His perspective on your situation. God is your dearest friend. He promises to take care of you and provide for your deepest needs. Ask Him to reveal His personal love for you and the grace that is yours in Christ.
God wants all the negative attitudes out of your life so you can become the person He wants you to be.