Talk a Positive Talk

“Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:29-32

While pollution is a growing global problem, the most common source of contamination is not factories, automobiles, or households, but the human tongue. “Corrupt communication” defiles and poisons every relationship on earth. It is a spiritual toxin, spreading its ill effects from generation to generation. Three principles can be drawn from Paul’s exhortation to the Ephesians that can help us cleanse our talk.

First, let your talk be positive. “...only such a word as is good for edification...” Let your language speak well of others, creating an atmosphere that is constructive.

Second, let your speech be in the present tense. “...according to the need of the moment...” It is amazing how much negative talk is about something that has happened or might occur. Let your speech deal with the need of the moment, not a past hurt or a future worry.

Third, let your speech be gracious. “...that is will give grace to those who hear.” Grace is undeserved favor. Talk about others not as they deserve, but in light of the mercy and favor God has shown you.

“...put them all aside:...malice, slander, and abusive speech from your mouth.” Colossians 3:8