“Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:30-32
Life is full of injustices. You probably can think of several such instances in your own life. God’s Word contains its own record of those who suffered needlessly at the hands of others. David and his strife with Saul as well as Joseph and the injustice delivered to him by his bothers are but two examples.
One way to remain free of bitterness and resentment is to focus on Jesus and not the action committed against you. People are often thoughtless and careless in their words and deeds. But God uses even the worst injustice to mold and shape us into the image of His Son. However, if you allow bitterness to gain a foothold in your life, you could risk missing His best. The injustice or trial is not meant to harm you but to strengthen your faith as you trust Christ to right any wrongs.
How do you conquer bitterness? Begin by confession. Tell God all you are feeling, and ask Him to help you forgive others. Then learn to claim His promises concerning your specific situation. To David, God was a Deliverer (Psalm 18:48). To Joseph, He was the God who was constantly at his side (Gen. 39:23). Ask Jesus to magnify Himself to you today as you worship Him.
“Faith sees the bow of the covenant promise whenever sense sees the cloud of affliction.” -C.H. Sprugeon