Bitterness

“Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; that no root of bitterness springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled.” Hebrews 12:14-15

Health bulletins routinely carry warnings about leaving water-containing items - such as cans and old tires - scattered around the house or farm. It is not just that these collectors are unsightly, but they are prime breeding grounds for insects. Likewise, the poisonous fruit of a bitter spirit is cultivated in various breeding grounds.

Bitterness is bred in the soil of unfulfilled expectations. We have aspirations and hopes that never mature: “Why didn’t I get that job?” “Why haven’t I accomplished what I wanted in life?” Such dashed dreams can form the perfect atmosphere to nourish a bitter spirit.

Bitterness also is bred in the hearth of adverse circumstances. “Why did my child die so young?” “Why did I get fired from my job?” Affliction can be a hammer that drives us ever deeper into despair, providing the ideal environment for a bitter spirit to grow.

Bitterness also is cultivated through continued anger at people or events. A few days of hostility toward someone or something can become a season, a year, a lifetime of suppressed rage which nourishes a bitter spirit daily.

“And do not give the devil an opportunity.” Ephesians 4:27