Dealing with Personal Conflict, Part 1

“But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be of God and not from ourselves; we are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not despairing; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed; always carrying about in the body the dying of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our body. For we who live are constantly being delivered over to death for Jesus' sake, so that the life of Jesus also may be manifested in our mortal flesh.” 2 Corinthians 4:7-11

Given the choice, most of us would choose membership in “the status quo society”: “Lord, things are going pretty well for me now. I’d rather not have trouble knock at my door just now.” That is a common sentiment. We want to maintain our comfort zone. We dislike change - especially the kind that is brought on by conflict.

The moment friction enters the picture - in our relationships or in our circumstances - the peaceful, easy feeling of the status quo disintegrates. But if we view conflict as an opportunity rather than an obstacle, we make amazing discoveries.

Conflict generates alertness to both God’s and Satan’s presence. When trouble strikes, we realize we are in spiritual warfare. We sense the adversary at work, but more importantly we are sensitized to God’s Word and His Spirit.

Conflict also generates action. No one has to tell us to open the Scriptures; no one must force us to pray. We are motivated and mobilized by the Lord to both search the Scriptures and pray.

Conflict changes our attitudes. We become more grateful, more submissive, more dependent on God, more humble, and more understanding of others’ needs.

“Consider it all joy...when you encounter various trials.” James 1:2