Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Dealing with Personal Conflict, Part 2

“Therefore we do not lose heart, but though our outer man is decaying, yet our inner man is being renewed day by day. For momentary, light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory far beyond all comparison, while we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:16-18

Conflict affects people in different ways. Some internalize their difficulties - which can lead to sustained anger and frustration. Others fully vent their feelings and emotions - which may make them feel better momentarily but does not solve their problems. Still others try to ignore their problems, hoping they will disappear as time passes.

In God’s plan conflicts initiate the following scriptural scenario:

First, our conflicts should drive us to the Lord Jesus Christ. We look to God’s Word to guide our conduct; we seek His face to steady our course. We lean on His strength, depend on His wisdom, and take refuge in His arms.

Second, we entrust our problems to the Lord’s care. God is responsible for His children. Our conflicts concern Him, and He promises to sustain us if we cast our burdens on Him (1 Pet. 5:6-7).

Third, we thank God for an outcome that glorifies Him. The Lord uses our conflicts to produce outstanding results that will benefit us on earth and in heaven.

By taking our problems to the Father, we have engaged our Mighty God to work in our behalf. These problems can be solved as we allow Him to fight our battles for us (Ex. 14:14; Rev. 19:11).

“...we are powerless...but our eyes are on You.” 2 Chronicles 20:12